And Now The End is Near

As I am wont to do, many weeks have passed since I started this potentially final blog entry. I had actually started it to be a discussion of our family gathering for Christmas and the efforts of living aboard a winter covered yacht. 

So, within the following paragraphs, I will attempt to bring you all up to date with the happenings of the old Captain and the Admiral (hey, she deserves the promotion).

So now it begins

As we progress into the year 2020, the month of January brought a need for significant change in our lives and lifestyle. Following a diagnosis of a health issue, Charlotte and I had a long discussion about the reality of continuing our life aboard the Misty Lady. The old man has now developed a situation where his sense of balance comes and goes, therefore walking on the Lady’s decks. getting on board or off, or simply walking about the marina on the docks has become a potentially dangerous, possibly even fatal situation of falls that injure, involve a water hazard, or falling between the boat and the dock (a friend died from that situation). 

Faced with this situation, we determined that we should put the yacht up for sale and move back on land into a condo apartment somewhere. So, we made contact with a real estate agent about a new condo, and then let the membership know that the Misty Lady was going up for sale.

One of our yacht club member family indicated that he may have a person who might want to buy the old girl. Our asking price was quite a bit below the market for a yacht of this size and age, but we own the old girl outright and simply want to get her sold and use the funding from the sale to outfit our new condo. While everyone who heard our asking price was surprised at the low cost, we found that the first person was looking for an entirely different type of boat.

A second interested party came along to view the old girl and they were most excited about her size, looks and especially the asking price. We offered to finish off the interior walls, since we had already started that project and would allow them to select the new wall colors.  The need for us to go ashore was brought home very painfully slightly over a month ago.  During a visit by the couple who were interested in buying the yacht, I stepped off the dockside steps to close the water valve that was filling our on board water tank.  I either missed a step, tripped over the hose or simply lost my balance, and fell on my face upon the concrete surface of our finger dock.  Cut over my eye, an abrasion on my knee and right hand but the big thing was what I thought were bruised ribs.  Following two weeks the pain increased sufficiently that the Admiral decided I should go to the emergency room.  Turned out following a CAT scan, that I had actually broken four ribs, with one complete separated.  Now, almost a month and a half later, the old ribs are finally allowing me to move about without flinching.  So, the decision to end our live aboard lifestyle became even more confirmed.

After considerable discussions, and in consultation with several sources, it became obvious that we essentially had only three options. These were:

  1. Find a person or company that did restoration of older vessels, and who would be interested in acquiring the old girl for a fire sale price and restore for resale at a market price. The work to restore the Lady would include fuel tank repair/replace, finish the interior walls, and other small tasks. A purchaser would have to be someone who went into this deal with eyes open and a commitment to working or hiring work done to first and foremost, repair the fuel tank.
  2. Find a person or company who would purchase the old girl for salvage and remove the resalable items such as the two main engines, two large capacity generator sets, upgraded navigation system (including a new radar, a new radio with AIS capacity, and a multi function display). A washer and a dryer were also installed on the old girl along with a brand new (never been used) dishwasher. Lots of other items that would be salvageable from the old girl and then her hull and superstructure would be dismantled. A sad ending for a graceful lady of the waters.
  3. Final option, least attractive, but probably easier to do, would be to donate the Misty Lady to some charitable organization, or perhaps the US Naval Academy for training purposes. We would not receive any cash out of this deal, but would possibly be able to take a tax write off over the next five years.

The photo below shows a group gathering of my immediate family members

The family is, L-R, grand daughter Hattie, me, grand daughter Camilla, kneeling, daughter in law Becky, my bride Charlotte, then my daughter Kurby, my ex wife/their mom Phyllis, and lastly. my son Clifton. As many of you know, my son Mike mid between my daughter and my son Cliff, passed from Meningococcal meningitis.

We spent a terrific afternoon with family, enjoying the grand daughters and just connecting with everyone. Gifts were exchanged and good food was served and enjoyed.

Following Coffee and pie, Char and I headed for home. We needed to stop off at a grocery to get food and snacks for tomorrow, Christmas Day. Nothing around here is open on that day in the form of grocery or other food items. We also expect the yacht club will be pretty empty since a number of our members will be visiting with family members for the holiday. A few, like us, will be in the marina and the club house but the numbers would be rather small.

The club house has been decorated very festive in the spirit of the holidays, and we took advantage to snap a photo of Charlotte in front of the Christmas trees on the upper dining/bar area on the second floor.

 

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Author: harv1941

Just a summary, I am 84 years of age, retired in July 2013 and settled down to promoting the dangers of bacterial meningitis, which killed my beloved son, Mike in 2009. My wife, Charlotte, and I embarked on an adventure of live aboard cruising, aboard a large Blue Water motor yacht. While our beginning was rather fraught with hurdles, we continued to look forward to the day we moved aboard the Misty Lady and cruise the eastern seaboard and associated waterways. After more than four years of life aboard this Bluewater Motor Yacht, I developed an advanced problem due to interaction with medications and experienced rather frightening balance problems. Therefore, getting on and off the yacht was fraught with danger of falling between the docks and the boat's hull. Walking the docks was also problematic considering that our yacht club docks were all floating docks and my balance problem was a danger during the walk from our yacht's docking slip to the clubhouse or out to the DC Wharf facilities and our car housed in the yacht club's reserved garage. SO, we had to regretfully put the Misty Lady up for sale and move back on shore. We moved on shore, first into a condo apartment in Alexandria, then after two years there, we relocated to the city of Newport News, in the Hampton Roads area of Virginia. Our original desired location was in the city of Hampton, Virginia, which is the oldest English-speaking settlement in the United States having been established originally in 1610. My ancestors came to this country through this settlement in the mid 1600s and lived in that area for around 100 years before beginning a migration of one portion of our family toward the west. I looked forward to moving back to this area and exploring the roots of my family, both maternal and paternal ancestry, but we found a great house in the Newport News area and became ensconced in the terrific neighborhood of Kiln Creek. My wife, being still actively employed, received a substantial offer in a position with a government contractor firm back up in Northern Virginia. So we put the Newport News house up for sale, receiving and accepting an offer withing two days. We then relocated back up to the city of Alexandria and into another high rise condo. My wife reached a point where considerations for retirement were becoming very important. She indicated that she really didn't want to retire in Alexandria, so once again we began a house search in the Tidewater area, this time in the City of Williamsburg and in a community restricted to 55+ age owners. We found the ideal location, initiated the sale and closing for our retirement home. We then put our condo on the market. Alas, the market was not as robust as before so we had to change asking price a couple of time, but finally the Alexandria Condo was sold. Now we are set to enjoy the great locations found here in the Tidewater/Hampton Roads area, considering that we are history buffs and there are literally hundreds of historical sites in this segment of our nation. Of course living in Williamsburg is the epitome of history living life. So, now we are in our retirement home, in a great retirement type community. A great clubhouse with a fine dining restaurant, a grill/pub, an award winning PGA designed golf course and miles of walking trails. Looking forward to my wife's eventual full retirement and the two of us visiting all up and down the east coast historical spots.

3 thoughts on “And Now The End is Near”

  1. Just found this site. No need to end the posts. Stories go beyond “ownership”, they extend to experiences, memories, and advice.

    While my coffee-induced boredom and subsequent searching of Google may have led me here, it did so from a warm chair in a land-locked home. All the while, I sat here reading and “drifting” upon a sea of memories, not my own.

    You may not be on the water, but your heart can be, just as mine. The only way that the Misty Lady stops sailing, is if you stop taking her out on the blogs.

    So, I shall bookmark this page, even though you state it is your last post, and I shall hope your health is stable and/or improved and you can share a tale or twenty with us soon.

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    1. Russ, thank you for the post and kind words. As you suggest, I will reconsider the activity of posting on my blog. The Misty Lady vessel deserves at least a continuing memory.
      Watch for a new post in the coming days. Thanks again. Harvey

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    2. Russ, just a note, we are in the process of rejuvenating the blog site. As you said, I published a new blog entry just now and we are migrating to a different provider.
      See you soon, hope. The new links will be mistylady.org and mistylady.com but will not be ready for a day or so.

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